Dealing With Your Cuckold Emotions
How are you dealing with your cuckold emotions? One big challenge a cuckold faces is how to deal with the emotional component of being a cuckold. How you are introduced into the cuckolding realm can also impart different emotional elements for you to process and move beyond. Today, we will look at the most common emotional challenges cuckolds face. Is there help out there for a cuckold moving through these heady emotional elements?
Your Introduction To Cuckolding
How cuckolding is introduced into your relationship will dictate your emotional turmoil and what you must process. Some cuckolds bring the fantasy of watching their special someone fucking another into the relationship. It’s a huge turn-on for cuckolds, to watch their partner receive pleasure from another.
When they share this desire with their partners, sometimes the partners jump in with two feet. Other times, they reject the idea outright. A hard stop. While 
other times, there is an evolution over time towards cuckolding.
Cuckold Emotions Through Fantasy Play
In this scenario, couples often role play or fantasize together about her cuckolding him. A way for them to play, bond and try out the behavior and sexiness of cuckolding.
The challenge is: with our fantasies, we control the aspects of the fantasy. We control the level of emotions. We imagine how we might feel. But at the end of the day, all the players say and do exactly what turns them on.
So eventually, when the fantasy is brought to fruition, the cuckold may experience intense jealousy or humiliation that wasn’t anticipated in the fantasy.
When you take your fantasy to real-time, there are two other people in the mix. The cuckold can’t control what is said, what they experience. Imagining your wife on a date, vs seeing her walk out the door into another man’s arms, is quite another.
You think it’s sexy in fantasy when you imagine your wife’s left hand and wedding set wrapped around a firm throbbing cock. However, when the image is sent to you, or you witness it firsthand, the emotions and the humiliation is quite real this time, and very powerful.
Please understand, even with the exacerbation of the emotional experience when cuckold fantasy turns reality, more times than not, it also increases the cuckold’s sexual arousal.
You Discovered Your Wife Is Screwing Another
Your introduction to cuckolding came out of the blue. The thought of your wife sleeping around was never a fantasy you’ve had. But suddenly you realize that she is cuckolding you. Either by your discovery or a heartfelt chat where she tells you what she has been up to. This situation will always come with additional challenges emotionally.
Contrary to the first scenario, where the husband knows he’s turned on by being a cuckold, in this situation the husband has to find his place. If he’s going to stay, and she requires a lover, it will be a huge adjustment, emotionally, to take a back seat.
As challenging as it is to work through the hurt or betrayal you felt at first, once you move beyond it, the cuckold is in for more challenges.
Although it’s not 100%, it is a common phenomenon that is interesting! When a cuckold husband chooses to stay in the marriage, they eventually become highly aroused by his wife having a lover.
A few things happen when this is the evolutionary path for a surprise cuckold. Early on, after the discovery and after negotiating the new marital path, the wife leaves the husband alone at home. The hot wife goes on her date. Angry, jealous, and since she’s getting regular dick elsewhere, horny. He googles cuckold porn. His emotions are as high as his arousal, and he has an explosive orgasm, imagining the woman in the porn was his wife. Just one way a cuckold mind turns.
Cuckold Emotions
We can easily see that jealousy and envy will be a big part of the cuckold experience. With many cuckolds, these emotions give rise to higher levels of hormones like testosterone and cortisol. Testosterone is also used along with other hormones for sexual arousal. Do you see the dangerous mix?
Having these emotions and feeling aroused at the same time, it’s very confusing for a cuckold. It’s also confusing and concerning when a cuckold finds themselves becoming aroused by cock. Questions like, “Am I gay? Am I BI?” run through your head. Where will these feelings lead? You’ve heard of a cuckold fluffer, is that ahead for you?
Conflicted feelings arise when the cuckold truly wants his wife happy, but finds himself fantasizing more about her lover than her. The cuckold examines their life for little tells, which may have hinted at bisexuality. We can’t discount other emotional challenges. Struggling with the message in your head is often our culture talking. It says you should be angry, vengeful, and be a man and put your foot down.
Shame and guilt, as you can imagine, are prevalent as well. For the surprised cuckold, what kind of man has a wife who cuckolds him? You feel trepidation, thinking about those closest to you finding out. For the cuckold who initiated the play, what kind of man enjoys taking a back seat to his wife’s pleasure, to the degree she’s getting dick outside of your marriage?
Help With These Cuckold Emotions
There is help for you, cuckold. Find a friendly ear, vent your emotions with Mistress. Acquire tips and tricks to help you with your cuckolding journey. You don’t have to go it alone. You can process your emotions, and come to terms with a new way of life. It’s so much easier, and more fun, when you have a sexy and experienced Mistress who listens and understands.
A cuckold Mistress is also a great repository of knowledge. Many ladies provide cuckold training which can include adult chats and helping you move forward. You can explore your fantasies or train for in-person behaviors with hopes you’ll be required to perform them at home.
Cuckolding can be a very challenging experience and there is nothing wrong with having intense feelings. What you need is help to find your new balance.
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