You’re the kind of guy that enjoys a good beer, loves his football games on Sunday, and thinks chick flicks are a waste of time. Or maybe you’re the guy who actually enjoys going to the opera with his wife, likes to cook and enjoys a Friday night date watching one of those chick flicks with your lady. Obviously, you are two different guys with two different lifestyles. But what you both may have in common has to do with your wives. Some similarity that people on the outside wouldn’t automatically see. You both get turned on by the idea of your wife having sex with another guy. Both of you fantasize about it, get hard thinking about it, and pray for the day that it happens. You are a closeted cuckold and it’s time you came out!
A working definition of a cuckold is a man who is aware of and allows, or submits to, his wife’s sexual infidelities. And actually derives sexual pleasure and gratification from her dalliances.
Historically, the term “cuckold” was principally used in a derogatory fashion and often refers to the fact that the man being cuckolded is the last to know of his wife’s infidelity. Certain European village communities gathered to collectively humiliate a man whose wife gave birth to a child recognizably not his own. According to this legend, they held a parade in which they forced the clueless husband to wear antlers or horns on his head as a symbol of his wife’s infidelity. The knowledge and tolerance by the man of his spouse’s activities further defined him as a “wittol.”
Times have changed. Cuckolding is a common practice today and many enjoy this sexual fetish throughout the world.
If you are new to the world of the cuckold, new in the sense that you are only now realizing and acting on the fantasies that before only lived on in your head, welcome.
Men enter the world of cuckolding in various ways. You may fantasize about watching another guy fuck your wife and you’ve just recently shared that fantasy with her. In fact, she’s in for the adventure ride. Or, you discovered your wife is screwing around on you and that turns you on. You want to make her infidelities part of your sex life. Or you may have a wife who dominates you with her cuckolding, who makes you watch her have sex with other men and demands your celibacy. Practices, techniques and arrangements are as varied as they are pleasurable.
What is considered a more gentile form of cuckolding is where the man is fully aware and encourages his wife to have sex with other men. To some, it eliminates one key component of cuckolding which is the humiliation or victimization of the man. But to others, it is just one of the many interpretations of the cuckold fetish.
Cuckolding as the result of finding out your wife has been cheating on you, and your resulting discovery that it actually turns you on is another way men enter the cuckolding world. There is a certain degree of initial humiliation and victimization of the man to be sure. But turning that into an opportunity for a man to realize his own sexual fantasies and gratification resulting from his wife’s infidelities is an empowered form of cuckolding.
Submissive cuckolding, one of the more prevalent forms, incorporates the pose of reluctance. Actually, victimization of the cuckold. In this fetish cuckolding culture, the female is typically sexually dominant, while the man embodies the submissive role. The submissive cuckold’s wife or her lover permits the cuckold to participate at their pleasure. Or forbids it completely and requires celibacy from the cuckold.
Other cuckolding arrangements are possible also. Some include having husbands take female lovers with their wives full knowledge.
Cuckolding techniques and sexual situations are as unique as the couples and others involved in them. A husband masturbating while he watches his wife getting screwed is one of the many techniques. He may be allowed by his wife to bring himself to orgasm or prevented from it altogether. Some wives cuckold their husbands by making them masturbate to pictures of them fucking other men. Dominant wives laughing at or mocking their husbands, while another man is stuffing their pussy is a more sub/dom style of cuckolding.
Find a fit and form that’s right for you. Or simply do as your wife demands. It’s up to you!