Cuckolds Get Turned On By Cuckolding – Why?

By Ms Scarlett of Cuckold Fantasies

History Of the Term Cuckold

In order to explore why so many cuckolds get so turned on, first we need to revisit a little history. “Cuckold” derives from the Old French word for the Cuckoo bird “Cocu” with the pejorative suffix “-ald” added. The earliest written use of the Middle English derivation, “cockwold” occurs in 1250. The females of certain varieties of Cuckoo lay their eggs in other birds’ nests. This frees them from the need to nurture the eggs to hatching. In medieval Europe, the law, custom, and the church all defined married women as a category of property held by their husbands. Although Christian marriage vows strictly enjoined sexual exclusivity in a marriage for both partners, custom rarely enforced it on the husband.  Even though Catholic doctrine held infidelity, by either party, to be a mortal sin.

A nuance of the word often overlooked in contemporary usage is that it refers to a man who, like the bird warming the cuckoo’s eggs, is unaware of his victimization. A man who knows, and acquiesced, in his wife’s taking of another lover, was call a “wittol.” The word itself a derivation from the Middle English for “willing (as in knowing) cuckold.”

The Cuckold Male Could Be a Husband Or Boyfriend

There are numerous variations on cuckolding or being cuckolded:

For example, this cuckold male watches his woman dress up to go out for the night.  He knows she is out looking for another man. And there is nothing he can do about it. He waits for her return and  just observes her appearance, which is obviously different from when she left.

Another cuckold male could be made to wait up for his partner. Then quietly listen to all the details of her night with another man when she returns.  Knowing their partner is sleeping with someone else turns on some cuckolds.

Then there are the cuckold males who must sit and watch as she brings home a man she has just met.  And has sex with him while he is in the same room. Other cuckold males may only stay in the next room. Only to peek through a crack in the door or hide in a closet to simply listen or watch in secret.

How Sissy Cuckolds Get Turned On

Most of the time, though, the cuckold male is made to sit in the same room and watch. However, if coerced to wear panties and lipstick, he furthers his submissiveness and humiliation. We call this sissy cuckolding. While he watches them, his wife and her lover can laugh, ridicule, and make fun of what he is wearing and taunt him about his inabilities to satisfy the woman.

There are also cuckold scenarios in which the cuckold male either willingly or is commanded to take part in the sexual acts he is observing. This could range from allowing him to lick his wife as preparation for her lover or “fluff”, stroke or suck the male, to arouse him for her pleasure. Some men find the role of the cuckold fluffer extremely arousing.

Another form of the cuckold participating would be as the one who cleans up by using his tongue on both after they have had sex. In some cases the cuckold male gives oral sex to the woman’s lover or the male lover takes him anally. Obviously, this turns on some cuckolds in a very big way!

In any of these cuckold cases the point is total submissiveness and total humiliation at being the cuckold “victim.”

Why Do So Many Men Enjoy Cuckolding?

So why do these men enjoy watching? One is that they want to see their wife or girlfriend enjoy sexual fulfillment that they cannot provide. Another is they acknowledge having a small penis. Rather than his partner leave for a better lover, she agrees to stay with him as long as she is in total control of whom and when and how she chooses a sexual partner.

Another form of being a cuckold male is by pretending he is bound and helpless and coerced to watch. This occurs when the cuckold male has a very sexually conservative wife or girlfriend and a stranger or intruder forces her to do things she wouldn’t even consider doing with her husband. As this “stranger” continues to ravage his mate, she can’t help but become totally aroused and begins enjoying what he is doing to her and lets loose like the cuckold mate has always wanted her to do.

“Coerced” Cuckolds Get Turned On, Too

By allowing himself to be her cuckold, he takes the submissive position and endures the humiliation if it means she will be completely fulfilled sexually. Watching another man have sex with her and seeing her react to him naturally arouses the cuckold male and if allowed to masturbate while watching, he will have an intense orgasm.

Many men will not admit they have a submissive side.  Yet, the humiliation arouses them mightily when their partner cuckolds them.  And they more than enjoy it.  So, this is why cuckolding turns on the cuckold.

Mistress Scarlett

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