You’re the kind of guy that enjoys a good beer, loves his football games on Sunday, and thinks chick flicks are a waste of time. Or maybe you’re the guy who actually enjoys going to the opera with his wife, likes to cook and enjoys a Friday night date watching one of those chick flicks with your lady. Obviously, you are two different guys with two different lifestyles. But what you both may have in common has to do with your wives, some similarity that people on the outside wouldn’t automatically see; you both get turned on by the idea of your wife having sex with another guy. Both of you fantasize about it, get hard thinking about it and pray for the day that it happens./strong>
You two are closeted cuckolds and it’s time you came out!
A working definition of a cuckold is a man who is aware of and allows, or submits to, his wife’s sexual infidelities and actually derives sexual pleasure and gratification from her dalliances.
Historically, the term “cuckold” was principally used in a derogatory fashion and often refers to the fact that the man being cuckolded is the last to know of his wife’s infidelity. Certain European village communities were also known to have gathered to collectively humiliate a man whose wife gave birth to a child recognizably not his own. According to this legend, a parade was held in which the clueless husband would be forced to wear antlers or horns on his head as a symbol of his wife’s infidelity. This knowledge and tolerance by the man of his spouse’s activities further defined him as a “wittol.”
Times have changed. Cuckolding is a commonly practiced and enjoyed sexual fetish throughout the world.
If you are new to the world of the cuckold, new in the sense that you are only now realizing and acting on the fantasies that before only lived on in your head, welcome.
Men enter the world of cuckolding various ways. You may fantasize about watching another guy fuck your wife and you’ve just recently shared that fantasy with her and she’s in for the adventure ride. Or you may have recently discovered your wife is screwing around on you and you are turned on by it and want to make her infidelities part of your sex life. Or you may have a wife who dominates you with her cuckolding, who makes you to watch her have sex with other men and demands your celibacy. Practices, techniques and arrangements are as varied as they are pleasurable.
What is considered a more gentile form of cuckolding is where the man is fully aware and encourages his wife to have sex with other men. To some, it eliminates one key component of cuckolding which is the humiliation or victimization of the man, but to others it is just one of the many interpretations of the cuckold fetish.
Cuckolding as the result of finding out your wife has been cheating on you, and your resulting discovery that it actually turns you on is another way men enter the cuckolding world. There is a certain degree of initial humiliation and victimization of the man to be sure, but turning that into an opportunity for a man to realize his own sexual fantasies and gratification resulting from his wife’s infidelities is an empowered form of cuckolding.
Submissive cuckolding, one of the more prevalent forms, incorporates the pose of reluctance— victimization of the cuckold. In this fetish cuckolding culture, the female is typically sexually dominant, while the man takes on the submissive role, only becoming involved with his wife or her lover when she permits it, or permits it not at all and he is kept celibate.
Other cuckolding arrangements are possible also; some include having husbands take female lovers with their wives full knowledge.
Cuckolding techniques and sexual situations are as unique as the couples and others involved in them. A husband masturbating while he watches his wife getting screwed is one of the many techniques. He may be allowed by his wife to bring himself to orgasm or prevented from it altogether. Some wives cuckold their husbands by making them to masturbate to pictures of them fucking other men. Dominant wives may laugh at or mock their husbands, while they are getting their pussy stuffed by another man in a more sub/dom style of cuckolding.
Find a fit and form that’ s right for you, or simply do as your wife demands, it’ s up to you!